{"id":383,"date":"2024-03-04T18:52:25","date_gmt":"2024-03-04T18:52:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/?p=383"},"modified":"2025-12-13T19:41:50","modified_gmt":"2025-12-13T18:41:50","slug":"domyslenim-rovnou-do-pekel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/?p=383","title":{"rendered":"Dom\u00fd\u0161len\u00edm rovnou do pekel"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jsem p\u0159esn\u011b ten typ \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd ka\u017edou situaci analyzuje. Pokud tedy zrovna ne\u017eiju na autopilota, to pak samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm v\u016fbec. Na situace pot\u00e9 ve velk\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f nahl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm z pohledu okoln\u00edch osob. A\u0165 u\u017e rodiny, p\u0159\u00e1tel, nebo prost\u011b kolem\u017eij\u00edc\u00edch, t\u0159eba na zast\u00e1vce. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1m si pak: \u201etohle bylo fajn,\u201c \u201en\u011bkdo nebo n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd si o m\u011b ur\u010dit\u011b myslel toto\u201c a to m\u011b zrovna moment\u00e1ln\u011b uspokojuje. Tak\u017ee m\u00e1m super den. Jindy se mi stane n\u011bjak\u00fd trapas a v moj\u00ed hlav\u011b b\u011b\u017e\u00ed titulky: \u201eCo si asi o mn\u011b mysl\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk sed\u00edc\u00ed za v\u00fdlohou kav\u00e1rny, kolem kter\u00e9 zrovna proch\u00e1z\u00edm a u kter\u00e9 se mi utrhlo ucho u kabelky?\u201c \u0160mankote, to se pak sna\u017e\u00edm se zpr\u016fhlednit. Daleko hor\u0161\u00ed ale je, kdy\u017e se tyhle vzorce my\u0161len\u00ed prom\u00edtnou do kruhu p\u0159\u00e1tel a rodiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"268\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/cdacc-img_3861-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-268\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"235\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/a7dd5-img_3293-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-235\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taky se v\u00e1m to st\u00e1v\u00e1? Za\u017eila jsem u\u017e spoustu h\u00e1dek, a\u0165 u\u017e jako pozorovatel, nebo \u00fa\u010dinkuj\u00edc\u00ed a ze v\u0161ech si nesu to, co m\u00e1 mysl pova\u017euje za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. V m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b jde na moji hlavu v\u0161echno \u0161patn\u00e9, tak\u017ee v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 obhajov\u00e1n\u00ed se a hled\u00e1n\u00ed toho \u0161patn\u00e9ho na tom druh\u00e9m. A \u017ee hnus\u016f moje hlava um\u00ed vymyslet kvanta. O co hor\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e p\u0159i p\u0159\u00edm\u011b\u0159\u00ed zjist\u00edm, \u017ee j\u00e1 jsem celou dobu rozep\u0159e jen p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela, co hrozn\u00e9ho si mysl\u00ed ten druh\u00fd a jak\u00fd hrozn\u00fd je on. A on celou dobu jen rozm\u00fd\u0161lel, jak doj\u00edt sm\u00edru a vy\u0159e\u0161it to, co n\u00e1m zrovna nelad\u00ed. Hrozn\u011b jsem se naposledy styd\u011bla a bylo mi tak t\u011b\u017eko, jako snad je\u0161t\u011b nikdy. Zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 kdy\u017e se jednalo o m\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd spole\u010dn\u011b s mnou pro\u0161el tolika bolestmi. Pravdou ale je, \u017ee mi to vlastn\u011b o\u010distilo kus du\u0161e. Je dobr\u00e9 si neshody vysv\u011btlit. Kdy\u017e u\u017e ale po sob\u011b je\u010d\u00edte tak, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 hlas dosahuje t\u00f3nu C3, bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme se, jak \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 n\u00e1\u0161 tat\u00ednek, k hranici, za kterou bychom j\u00edt nem\u011bli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"191\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/a59a7-img_1976-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-191\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"187\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/9066d-img_1859-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-187\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"131\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bezostrychloktu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/bd268-img_0373-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-131\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Co pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ke vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9mu sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed? To slovo \u201evz\u00e1jemn\u00e9\u201c je opravdu d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, proto\u017ee jinak jak\u00fdkoliv drobe\u010dek hn\u011bvu m\u016f\u017ee vyhn\u00edt do neskute\u010dn\u00fdch rozm\u011br\u016f. Tak\u017ee co pom\u00e1h\u00e1? Jednak d\u00e1t si sv\u00ed\u010dkovou. Druhak zaj\u00edt si spolu na zmrzku a do t\u0159etice za\u010d\u00edt ps\u00e1t bakal\u00e1\u0159ku \ud83d\ude00 T\u00edmto receptem by se rozhodn\u011b nikdo \u0159\u00eddit nem\u011bl, d\u011bl\u00e1m si srandu. Patent na rozum ani vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed z oblasti psyhologie bohu\u017eel nem\u00e1m, ale jedno v\u00edm. Hlavn\u011b se na situaci pod\u00edvat s odstupem, kdy\u017e si uprost\u0159ed h\u00e1dky p\u0159edstav\u00edte sebe jak se na onu situaci d\u00edv\u00e1te jako nez\u00e1visl\u00fd pozorovatel, m\u016f\u017ee to pomoci. Nebo kdy\u017e m\u00e1te v h\u00e1dce pauzu, zkusit se z toho vypsat do den\u00edku (nebo blogu) a to taky pom\u00e1h\u00e1 si v\u011bci srovnat v hlav\u011b. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u00e1 u\u017e jsem se pekla dotkla a nikdy nechci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kdy\u017e se rozedn\u00ed\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T1nz-Iq8U04?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jsem p\u0159esn\u011b ten typ \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd ka\u017edou situaci analyzuje. Pokud tedy zrovna ne\u017eiju na autopilota, to pak samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm v\u016fbec. Na situace pot\u00e9 ve velk\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f nahl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm z pohledu okoln\u00edch osob. A\u0165 u\u017e rodiny, p\u0159\u00e1tel, nebo prost\u011b kolem\u017eij\u00edc\u00edch, t\u0159eba na zast\u00e1vce. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1m si pak: \u201etohle bylo fajn,\u201c \u201en\u011bkdo nebo n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd si o m\u011b [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-denik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/383","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=383"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/383\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":755,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/383\/revisions\/755"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=383"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=383"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bezostrychloktu.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=383"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}